SEASONS CHANGE

So I've been having some good couple of weeks, especially since the weather has changed! Currently NY is in the middle of some nice weather, it's basically the calm before the heat stroke that will come and smother all us here and make us sad, sweaty messes in the up coming months. But for the time being I'm enjoying the nice weather that reminds me of growing up in Cali. I've been in a really GREAT mood the past couple of days, I think that it has to do with feeling like I'm getting on in life, or is it just getting older or more complacent? I used to feel like I if I wasn't moving that I wasn't going to amount to anything, but this weekend all I wanted to do was sit on my new couch and watch cable, you couldn't have FORCED me to do that 10 years ago, hell's NO! Maybe it had to do with the four day weekend that we had thanks to labor day, who knows?

Anyhoo, I'm in a great place right now in my life, I actually have a command on myself and my emotions and basically my future. Sure, life would be a bit easier if I was making a few extra pesos, but I know that I will be taken care soon, I just have to bide my time and earn my stripes.  Roommate and I are friends again and that's good, we were at odds for so long, but I think that we have figure each other out for the most part. 

It's past 10 pm and I'm in my pajamas and I'm getting ready for bed, I had a full day today. I woke up hella early and got work a lot earlier than usual, and I had me a busy, steady day. I didn't take a lunch break and even when some CRAZY drama broke out on the booking table I just had to laugh it all off and learn from some of these other's crazy outbursts. So then I grabbed my bag and FINALLY made it back to the gym. After a few months of being scared to roll up into my expensive ass gym, it was like going home again. I took it easy and just used the eliptical machine and made a vow to start going back, so I already packed my bag for tomorrow morning. I'm going to plan to run and do some light stretching before work manana, I can't be all crazy and hit the weights just yet, hopefully by next week I'll be doing some light weights. 

I'm rambling, I know, but it just feels good to feel alive again. Want to send a shout out to my sistah girl Osito, she's been reading up and getting to know La Divafina. Hey CHOLA! Thanks for reading!

I'm gonna leave you with a FIERCE video from back in the day, I thought that it was appropriate for the title since we are changing seasons... :-)

Don't ya'll just love some Expose? night! DF..

PPG's

So those bitched over there are my oldest and dearest friends that I met and survived high school with..we were a ragtag group of misfits that found each other and raised one another into the fine upstanding queens you see barely standing before you--->

Those are my best friends...I don't have the time or the energy to even begin to tell a story about al of us, but I do have to say that meeting up with everyone together for the first time in EIGHT years was awesome..two of us are 30 and the other two aren't far along..but it felt like we were 18 and driving across the border to go club hopping and man chasing. We had a great dinner and laughed about everything that we could think about, it was very "REMEMBER WHEN!" From left to right, role call : The Driver, Gabbycakes and the lovely Lencha..then of course DF herself.

No matter how fierce I think I'm getting, all I have to do is call one of these guys and they'll bring back down to where I came from...yes honey..Chula Vista...

Have a good night!

xoxo

DF

THE BIRD CAGE

So I walk into the house with a model in tow and I walk into Roommate and current BF wrapped in multi-colored caftans watching The Birdcage. Like our house wasn't gay enough here I am walking in with a cute STRAIGHT male model who is crashing on our couch for the night cuz he has a job in the morning then he's back to the midwest, so I walk in and burst out laughing. And it brought me back to when my best sistah/girlfriend, La Lencha, and I ditched our afternoon classes and drove over the mall and caught and early showing of this movie. It was funny as shit then and even funnier now. 

OMG! This scene was GENIUS!!

This was a good training wheel post..I want to start again...so why not a funny one.

xoxo

DF